Elements of Welcome

Welcome home. How can you welcome well? Though I am focusing on teen children, this applies to everyone who passes through your door.

There are elements of welcome…

kind words

being present

a spot of beauty

food

a clean home

Kind words

of welcome says a lot, like acceptance. Love.

Being present

when they walk through the door seems small and may be inconvenient but actually speaks volumes. You are important enough I left every thing I was doing to say I am glad you are home! If we lose track of the time, no worries. The dogs with welcoming barks of anticipation warn me.

A spot of beauty

may be a small arrangement of candle light and flowers.

Our girls come home from the world each day that is full of underlying tensions of teasing boys; cranky teachers, pressure to do well, to be accepted. It may be hidden or so obvious depending on the day. It is not always pretty.

A haven is needed to refresh if only for a few minutes.

Food

is always a good thing for growing kids. On days when I plan well, there is FOOD. They are always hungry!

A clean home

is appreciated even if it doesn’t always show in their rooms or backpacks. When the house is clean and tidy, they notice. If I am working in the study and don’t come immediately, they’ll fade into homework, games or naps. I miss my chance to connect! This is the time we can.

Setting the tone of a home with creativity and order isn’t all that hard. It just requires a bit of attention and planning. It doesn’t have to take extra money. If you work out of the home there are ways to welcome in absentia.

When it is done