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Six Tips for Preparing & Planning for Thanksgiving

October 29, 2022 38 Comments

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Are you thinking about Thanksgiving yet?

I am . This year there will be 8 of us celebrating together. The other 2 siblings will be joining their in-laws for the feast!

Regardless ofthe numbers around your table you still need to do some planning! Here are my tips for that. It does hel for who ever is hosting to be prepared and avleto enjoy the family and guests.

Taking the time together to express thanks and graditude for our many blessings together is significant for our family. For me, to be able to focus on that as we sit around the table is honey for my heart.

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From an earlier  2016 post.

Thanksgiving is very soon. I am just now starting to really plan for our family gathering. 

It is for the weekend and includes Amy’s birthday. All 5 kids with families will be here. Our special bonus guest is Jessica’s mom.

Celebrating in our new dining room with the extra space is something I am looking forward too!  No more squeezing or elbow bumping!

So why do I plan so much?  It keeps the stress at bay for me. That is a benefit.

I like to love on my family and guests.  Using my creativity for decor, the table and food is how I do that. It is an act of love and consideration for my family and friends.

Don’t you love to feel like you are being pampered as a guests?

Don’t you enjoy the specialness of holidays?

Don’t you love to feel welcomed?

 

A prepared home is welcoming.

 

 

Having years of experience and a variety of guests as we crisis-crossed the globe I want to share a few basics I include in my planning every year.

 

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#1 Who am I going to invite?  

For some, it is a no brainer. Family. When you have married kids, they have in-law family so there has to be some compromising and planning for that. Generally, we flip between Christmas and Thanksgiving.  Since one of our sons is single, we consider his situation in planning locations.  He’s married now soone one to add to the flipping!  We are so fortunate to have this arrangement! 

 

Because we have lived in many places, it was not uncommon to have holidays without family.  One of our memorable guests was an elderly retired missionary I had as a Bible study teacher. She was delightful.  Newly arrived refugees joined us another. Coworkers who will not be joining their family can be included.

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#2 Where will the turkey come from? 

Last night over dinner with friends we had discussions on the merits of fresh or frozen.

Overseas in Asia it was a major focus.  Not fresh or frozen but would we be able to get one!  Turkeys were not easy to come by! The hunt to find a place to order from had to be well in advance, like over a month.  My first one in China came fresh, no doubt about it!   It was plucked …mostly.  The head and feet and every other part were tucked in the cavity or tied on to the body.  My helper was pleased to take all of those home with her after she saw me tossing those parts away.

I hear turkeys may be in short supply this year. Two years ago, we waited too late and didn’t get a a 22 pounder as usual.  Not this year!  We will need that big one!

 

 

 

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#3 Plan the menu

With all the blog posts and Pinterest choices,  this could be a daunting task.  Begin with the basics and your traditional dishes first.  Then add or modify.

Each year I have a new dish selection to our core basic menu.

We do like some Thanksgiving leftovers; however, I don’t want days worth!

If it is a pot luck, courtesy would say let folks know a week ahead what they should bring.

Appetizers or mini meals for the day are planned for and will be set out early.  We graze!  One year ago we had a pie revolt.  Read about that Pie Tyranny here.  Our family will gather for the entire day!

It’s an old fashioned house party with family this year. Kids will be on couches and in the gallery.  All the beds are full.  I just love it!!

 

#4 Make the shopping list(s).

Include all ingredients needed for each recipe.  Not having basics like sage and salt can really                   throw you off.

There are a lot of power shoppers out in force Thanksgiving week.  Plan well!  Try to go early leaving only fresh to buy that week.  Take the list!  Hope that keeps you and me from forgetting to missing needed items.

Don’t forget extra trash bags!

 

 

 

#5 Plan the table setting

Flowers from the local market or grocery store are nice.  Candles add a touch of festivity.  Are there enough plates?  Silverware, serving dishes and cutlery?

I physically pull out the serving dishes and cutlery to insure I have what is needed.  If not, buy, borrow or change your menu.

Are there enough dishes and glasses?  Silverware?  Borrow, buy or use sturdy plastic ware.

Serving dishes and baking pans?   Don’t discount the advantage of foil and disposable pans.

Paper napkins are an easy way to add a festive colorful touch to your holiday settings.  If you use paper plate please buy sturdy ones; it is so worth the extra expense!

 

#6 Make a timeline.

Timelines for everything!  I include the prep and pies for Tuesday and Wednesday.

The printed out timeline is my guide for the day and weekend.  Otherwise my mind would be jumping around and stressing me and everyone out!

I put it along with the menu of the day on the fridge (or chalkboard)  for all to see.

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Why all this planning?  When I am prepared, I feel more relaxed and comfortable.  While every moment may not be smooth, it sure helps all of us enjoy the time together much better.  I also include breaks for myself

I heard years ago that is the French hostess thing to do!

 

Would you share your planning tips with us?  We could all benefit.  

 

 

 

 

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  1. rosemary palmer says

    November 8, 2020 at 11:23 pm

    No matter if just us 3 or a house full, there always has to be planning and a schedule.

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      November 11, 2020 at 3:25 pm

      Without a doubt!

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  2. Kim says

    November 8, 2020 at 6:51 pm

    Great tips! Unfortunately we won’t be celebrating with anyone this year. Restrictions in NY are preventing travel and after the spring most people are very cautious about gatherings of any kind. I’m looking forward to setting a pretty table for us though, but we will miss our usual gathering of 30+.

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      November 8, 2020 at 7:16 pm

      Adjusting expectations for the holidays can be a challenge but with good results. Our daughter is at Syracuse where they test the studnets constantly! We’re counting the days until she makes it home. Hope your smaller holiday is a good one!

      Reply
  3. Brooke Fedigan says

    November 6, 2020 at 1:04 am

    These tips are perfect. I love to plan ahead, Thanksgiving is by far my favorite Holiday! Have a wonderful one.

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      November 6, 2020 at 3:53 pm

      It’s a favorite of ours too! Happy weekend!

      Reply
  4. Meegan says

    November 4, 2020 at 2:56 am

    Thank you for sharing your experience and ideas to plan ahead. I really need all the help I can get 🙂

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      November 6, 2020 at 3:57 pm

      Makes for a better experience plus we all wander in and out of the kitchen for lots of talking and taste testing!

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  5. Juliet says

    November 4, 2020 at 2:24 am

    You’ve inspired me to start planning and be better prepared! Our gathering will be very small this year but no matter how big or small, being organized is everything. Thanks for the great suggestions! xo

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      November 4, 2020 at 2:55 am

      You’re welcome Juliet. I do tend to plan for anytime we have company this way regardless of how many are around our table.

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  6. Linda says

    November 3, 2020 at 3:09 am

    So many great tips! I’m so excited for Thanksgiving and Christmas!

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      November 3, 2020 at 12:53 pm

      I am too! Hope the tips are helpful. Thanks for visiting Linda.

      Reply
  7. Anita holland says

    November 3, 2020 at 3:02 am

    So many great tips, thanks for sharing.

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      November 3, 2020 at 12:54 pm

      Have a good day Antia and thanks for the vist.

      Reply
  8. Kim Purvis says

    November 3, 2020 at 12:17 am

    Great tips to get you organized for the holiday!

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      November 3, 2020 at 12:55 pm

      Thanks for dropping by. Organizing can make theose days better!

      Reply
  9. Carol Karl says

    November 2, 2020 at 6:59 pm

    This is all great advice. Here in New Zealand we don’t celebrate thanksgiving but these tips are useful for planning any get together. Thanks for sharing.

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      November 3, 2020 at 12:56 pm

      Thanks Carol. You are right; I do this for any gathering.

      Reply
  10. Danielle says

    November 2, 2020 at 6:50 pm

    These are all great tips! I hope you have a great Thanksgiving with your family! Holidays with family make the best memories!

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  11. Marie says

    November 2, 2020 at 4:32 pm

    I definitely feel more relaxed when I am prepared! I’ve learned my lesson in throwing a dinner party & feeling rushed & frazzled- not enjoyable!

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      November 2, 2020 at 4:41 pm

      I know what you mean! Been there!

      Reply
  12. Maria says

    November 2, 2020 at 4:00 pm

    Every year I like to try to change it up! Your ideas gave me something to think about!

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      November 2, 2020 at 4:41 pm

      Hope it is helpful for a wonderful Thanksgiving for you and yours.

      Reply
  13. Doreen says

    November 2, 2020 at 2:43 pm

    Great tips. I work best with lists on my phone. I keep a list for everything. As for who will be invited, well, it’s always the same people, so that part is easy. The menu – I’m always looking for new and intriguing recipes.

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      November 2, 2020 at 2:53 pm

      I do make list on my phone but still rpint timeline and menu out for the fridge so everyone including me know what to do when. I try to add a new dish every year but now with my daughter and DIL’s they bring something new and new favorites they have introduced! Check out this one. It’s from my newest DIL! https://bushelandapickle.com/autumn-carmelized-vegetables/ Happy Monday!

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  14. Michelle Leslie says

    November 2, 2020 at 12:49 pm

    Thanks for all the wonderful tips, Linda. I always seem to go into a flat spin when we have more than two people around and I know I have to feed them. Not my strong point I’m afraid. Love how you mentioned including co-workers and/or people who may not be lucky enough to be invited to a family Thanksgiving. That’s what it’s all about <3

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      November 2, 2020 at 2:43 pm

      Michelle, after literally decades of hosting friends and family I till make a list and often even a timeline otherwise I think I would meltdown! It helps with giving others tasks too. Hope these tips help you out when you host. And family bundles or rotisserie chicken is always an option! Happy Monday!

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  15. Sara says

    November 2, 2020 at 12:29 pm

    Thanks for sharing your tips! Have a happy Thanksgiving 🙂

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      November 2, 2020 at 12:42 pm

      Thanks for dropping by Sara! Hope your Thanksgiving is wonderful this year!

      Reply
  16. Jann Olson says

    November 25, 2015 at 4:40 pm

    Our Thanksgiving is always filled with our families favorites. Makes planning quite easy. We usually throw in a new dish for fun. Also, I trade off between a frozen fruit salad and a fresh one that my mom always made. I make pecan pie that was my moms recipe and Coconut cream that was my mother in laws. All the recipes have been passed down from family. Right down to the stuffing. It is work, but oh how I love it! One thing that is nice, is that each of my (5) kids bring one of the side dishes. Makes it a big help for me! This year I will be cooking 2 turkeys. Going to have a house full. Wishing you and yours a wonderful Thanksgiving! Thanks for sharing with SYC.
    hugs,
    Jann

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      December 1, 2015 at 2:03 pm

      Wow, 2 turkeys! I am in awe.

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  17. Cherry says

    November 18, 2015 at 4:54 pm

    Fun to visit your blog, Linda! And thanks for your comment on my Pursuing Heart facebook page. Hope your Thanksgiving is an extra memorable one. I agree with what you wrote … “A prepared home is welcoming”.

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  18. Leilani says

    November 11, 2015 at 3:36 am

    Nice ,thorough list. I leave enough the cooking for guests to help. That way everyone feels a part. 🙂

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      November 11, 2015 at 1:00 pm

      Thanks! Totally agree, it is always nice to have help and be included!

      Reply
  19. Caroline says

    November 10, 2015 at 12:43 pm

    I always plan ahead, it’s so much easier and less stressful that way. Love the planning tips.

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  20. Kim @ This Ole Mom says

    November 10, 2015 at 4:48 am

    I love all the great suggestions and tips. I agree that planning ahead makes things easier .

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  21. Pam Richardson says

    November 10, 2015 at 2:12 am

    Linda, great suggestions! I host Thanksgiving and do all the cooking! It is physically tiring, but worth all the labor! Thanks for sharing! Blessings, Pam

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    • bushel and a pickle says

      November 10, 2015 at 4:45 pm

      It can be tiring. I do ask and get help! Having it all planned helps me do that. Plus we have some really good cooks in our family.

      Reply

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